now i know i say some fucked up shit sometimes, but damn there is a limit.
its to the point where one is not just talking about people to crack jokes, but its escalated to that point that a person begins to talk about someone else for underlying reasons. i'm not pointing any fingers, naming names nor am i trying to diagnose anyone of any complex. simply because i do not have a degree in psychology.
lets just get that right for starters.
with that being said, this one female i used to communicate with took something, in my eyes, a bit too far.
situation : there is this other girl i communicate with on CS that just recently found out that she was pregnant. she showed me pictures and i can tell that she's pregnant because of her "baby bump" but she merely just figured she was gaining weight. there was no thought of her even being pregnant because she was still receiving her monthly cycle.
anyway, not long after my friend tells me she's pregnant, she tells me that this one girl is calling her fake in one of her post on CS. after her telling me who it is, i clearly state that i know the girl she's talking about. so i tell her I'll ask her why she thinks she fake & i'd tell her why.
so i hit her up on yahoo asking if she thought this chick was fake & her reasoning behind it, because me knowing her, i'm thinking she would have a legit reason. for example, one of the admin making a post saying her and other screen names have the ip address. [which can't be trusted by the way]
so, I'm talking to my friend and she explains that she think she's fake because she's saying just found out she was pregnant and is lying about it. basically saying, she already knew she was pregnant. that's when i think about it and i'm like, "yeah she has a point." because this pregnancy was random. I later dismiss it the conversation because I remember ol' girl telling me she was still getting her period. and because the girl I know refers to her unborn baby as "a bastard child" which pisses me off, because it offends me. i'll expound later.
I go back to my pregnant friend and explain to her why the girl I know thinks she's fake or whatever. and she tells me that my friend has made her own post about this girl; calling her fake, posting her pictures, going on and on about the situation.
by now I'm irritated with the situation, and i tell not to let it bother her. but she's all in the post trying to prove she's real, telling people to add her myspace because she has proof on there that's she real.
at that point I'm completely disgusted and offended. because not only was this girl someone i communicated with on and off the site and referred to as a friend, but she's going to major lengths to disrespect this girl. and number two, the whole "bastard child/bastard baby" thing urks me because she knows, along with everyone else, that I had my daughter out of wedlock.
i don't give a damn who you think you are, you don't go around poking fun at a pregnant woman and you certainly do not call their unborn child a bastard whether it is politically correct or not.
it only makes me wonder what she would say about me and/or my child behind my back. "oh Ashlee and her bastard daughter." =/
like i said, its some stuff you do and some you don't. there is some stuff you say and some stuff you don't fix your mouth to say. as a person, a grown ass woman/man at that, you should know where and when to draw the line, that's all i'm saying.
for me to communicate or befriend someone who can speak or say something like that with no flinch? hardly. i'm big on respect. as a woman, as a once pregnant woman and now as a parent, i feel disrespected.
and for the record, if the person i'm talking about is reading this blog, i am woman enough to say whatever i need to say to you or anyone else. i do not have "beef" with you nor did i ever have "beef" with you before. at the end of the day, you are just a girl on the internet whom I do not know in real life, and i'm sure I'm the same to you. just being real. lastly, there is no animosity.
i've voiced my opinion, and i'm out.
